Real is Rare

Here’s the reality.

None of us are easy to be with.

We all suffer from something.

Accept someone who is willing to stay committed to understand you and actually wants to grow with you.

Real is rare.

This is how genuine love is found. When walls are broken down and accept the other person for who they are, life becomes that much more enjoyable.

Free yourself of mind games. When you play mind games with others, you play them with yourself as well.

No matter what stage of healing you're at, please start believing you are worthy of love and deserve more than the bare minimum.

Choosing not to argue with people is self-care.

 

Some people will never get it and it’s not your job to change them - protect your peace.

 

Limiting your contact with those who are no good for your mental health is indeed self-care…

 

Your alone time is sacred, use it for self-exploration.

You’re never wrong for removing yourself from unhealthy situations, you don't even have to explain yourself.

Let my people glow Sparkles

I hope that you're kind to yourself, I hope you give yourself grace. I hope you think of yourself as a beautiful work in progress. I hope you give yourself credit for every step forward. I hope you remember how far you've come.

You deserve someone who sees the light fall on your cheeks and notices the way your eyelashes break it up into little shadows; you deserve someone who wants nothing more than to take photos of your eyes when there’s a sunset behind them; you deserve someone who truly loves you

No matter what you say, your actions tell the real story.

When you worked so hard to get yourself back to a place of loving yourself, having positive thoughts, being able to work through intrusive (upsetting) thoughts.. Please do not surround yourself with folks who feel the need to attach negative feelings on to you. Stay to yourself and be selective.

Some relationships inspire you to be single.