Inferiority and Superiority Complex

Inferiority & Superiority Complex

Fame / superiority, Rich / poor, superiority / inferiority. Fear causes over acting and over reacting.

Ego; Competition, Comparative; somewhere he feels inferior. On other occasion, he shows off.

Conditioning; toppers are appreciated. Freedom from Competition, Comparison is solution.

Superiority / inferiority both have same root. Exist both or none.

Competition, Comparative; when you question, you will find no base. Why you compare with 20-30 people. In each field there is a large number of people like them, like you. There is no reason to compare.

We are crowd followers. Two donkeys are chained; one with steel chain, other with gold chain. Both are chained. But we are conditioned to say; gold chain donkey is special.

Success is of two types; name, fame, position. Other one is satisfaction, contentment. Don't confuse contentment with laziness and comfort zone. Claiming empty contentment with very weak inner (beggar).

Roosters fighting, Murgon ki larai; is a constant fight. You win one race, next is ready for you. This world is full of competition, jealousy, complexity. It's like snake; outer attractive, inner lethal. It's corrupt. These all competitions are small cages. Cage is made of steel or gold, its cage. 

We win a good position in government, we tell our family. I cannot close my eyes. I'm seeing very bad things. Everyone will advise, close your eyes, mind your business. This is all corruption. Everyone, everywhere is corrupt.

Finding actual self is solution.

We perceive new environment as happiness; mountains, resorts. Actually it is instant pleasure. 

We are chained with limited thoughts (persons, job, job / family related) and they take the full control of ours. This is not natural state. This is state of disease (dis ease), not at ease.

Animals live natural life. But we can control our current disease state in which our thoughts are controlling us, make it reverse. Think about knife, shaving razor; if we lose control what will happen.

We have to learn how to manage thoughts. We are living in nonsense world full of competition, irrational thought cycle. We are under snow ball effect of our thought cycle. A small stone builds so big and powerful, it becomes impossible to stop.

We are living permanently in dis ease state.

Exercise: focus on own breath for 15 minutes. Thought (Mind) is self-talk. Brain is physical container. Mind is software. As we can control our outer talk, we can control our inner self talk (thought). Once we understand that it is possible. Then it is all like our other plans. We manage our appointments. Our understanding will help us to come out of unrealistic competition / comparison.

Especially we control our tongue in court, in front of camera. Same way we can control our inner talk (thought).

Who is responsible for this unnatural state, I (me) myself. Me means consciousness.

When we listen our favorite speaker, we forget our self. This is the reason when we listen a speech, we become charged. But we cannot retain. We go back to our unnatural state after a while.

All human beings have same consciousness.

Then we will feel self-talk as unnatural state.

In unnatural state, it’s hard to focus on breath but easy on mobile, TV, laptop. But this is not solution.

First step towards solution is to understand life.

If I accept myself as is, it’s not solution because I’m in unnatural state right now. We are forced to accept it.

If we have to accept, someone is pushing pin on our hand, it’s not our choice.

Same life we are living with full of headache.

We are familiar with only one way of living. We are not trained for alternatives.

True life is free from everything.

For few moments we feel on the top of mountains or any new place, lecture, speech. But again we return into our unnatural state.

Natural state is no self-talk. Natural action - honey bee never thinks to go to flowers. It’s in her intrinsic.

Life is not straight forward, this way or that way.

We are human beings. We are different than animals and birds. Their life is true natural without interference. They have their own fundamental (basic) language. They don’t need dress.

But we are on 180 degree, very far from that state now.

If we have everything available in the outer world, we ruin our inner side.

These are two extremes.

There is balance in between.

I have seen all the crap of this world.

Let me do something which I’m really supposed to do.

I’ll not go for money. Yes, I’ll use money to get there to natural state, which reduce / remove unnecessary chattering within my mind.

Acting based on greed is like a beggar. Acting to express self, then you’re very close to nature.

A flower has no need to give fragrance, it’s already there. There is no Inferiority / Superiority Complex.

We are busy in donkey race. That is the reason we are unable to see the right direction / path. Everyone everywhere is doing same through generations.

Path is not in the outer world, it’s inside.

Once we don’t have time to see inside, then we’re on the surface of the ocean where big streams are moving. There is no stability there. You will face ups and downs. But when are moving towards bottom of the ocean then there are no ups and downs.

Complexes create comparison and comparison come from seeing myself different than others. Me me you you.

In the depth, all is one, universe is in me. There is no me me you you.

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