Earn, Expectation, Happy Life

 Before you speak, listen. 

Before you write, think. 

Before you spend, earn. 

Before you invest, investigate. 

Before you criticize, wait. 

Before you pray, forgive. 

Before you quit, try. 

Before you retire, save. 

Before you die, give.

Expectations always hurt. I always feel happy, you know why, because I don't expect anything from anyone. 

Life is short. So love your life. Be happy and keep smiling. 

Just Live for yourself and always remember: Before you speak... Listen. 

Before you write... Think. Before you spend... Earn. Before you pray... Forgive. 

Before you hurt... Feel. Before you hate... Love. Before you quit... Try. 

Before you die... Live... That's Life...Feel it, Live it and Enjoy it.

11 words the happiest people live by

1. Love people. Use things. Because the opposite will never work.

2. Kindness: Be the reason someone believes in the goodness of people.

3. Gratitude turns what we have into enough and more. 

It turns denial into acceptance, chaos into order, confusion into clarity...it makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.

4. Forgiveness: When you forgive, you set a prisoner free and when you let go, you grow. Forgiveness is not an occasional act, it is a constant attitude.

5. Faith: If you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to the mountain, 'Move from here to there,' and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you.

6. Integrity is doing the right thing even when no one is watching. A person is not given integrity. It results from the relentless pursuit of honesty at all times.

7. Treat others how you want to be treated. Show respect even to people who don’t deserve it, not as a reflection of their character, but as a reflection of yours.

8. Patience is not the ability to wait but the ability to keep a good attitude while waiting. Everything will fall into place. Just be patient.

9. Peace is our natural state. Never let anyone or any situation destroy your inner peace.

10. Stay hopeful. You never know what tomorrow may bring. The sun isn't gone, there may just be some clouds in the way.

11. Life's better when you laugh often. A smile confuses an approaching frown (rude look).

The Best Way to Convince Someone They're Wrong: Disconfirmation bias; Pre-existing beliefs: Presenting the facts out loud. Presenting facts in a text paragraph. Using a chart. Chart is visual (more effective). 

Story, Which Changed The Fate Of Billions; He born in cave. He lived long and grown up there. Cave was dark and smelly. His mother was not allowing him to go out. One day, in the absence of mother, a snake made him to run out of cave. He saw the light, fresh air, valleys, trees, openness, lake, clouds. He was comparing his life in cave and outside of cave. Reality is different than closed cave. 

We all are imprisoned in limited caves (beliefs, cultures, language, food, traditions, games, bravery, success, medicine, personality, mentor, sect, issue, Shia, Sunni, Christian, Jews, Punjabi, Hyderabadi)

Where Did Mukhtar Masood's Lifetime Earnings Go? He donated all his property to 'Read Foundation' to make a college.

How to Convince People; Convincing Skills; 1. Never convince to convince, connect to convince. 2. Connect; need, interest, concern NIC (client). Then you will connect. 3. Seek to understand, not to answer. Listen to understand 4. Extend trust to gain trust

How to Change Someone’s Mind - 5 Rules to Follow

I'm right, you are wrong. (X approach). 1. Never turn the conversation into an argument. Give your opinion without hindering / hurting other person's opinion. 

Emotions play a big role in our decisions. Ego comes there. 2. Never say, 'I'm wrong.' Avoid looking like you are trying to prove something. I thought otherwise but I might be wrong. Show yourself that you are open to new ideas. 3. Get the other person saying, Yes, ASAP. Passion, hobby 4. Let the other person do a great amount of talking. Valuing their concerns. 5. Let the other person feel that the idea is theirs. You give them suggestions and let them decide.