Let's Live Miserable Life
How to be miserable | life jeene ka sahi tarika| life ko kaise jiye | life ko behtar kaise banaye
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fsHV5gNHzvo
The findings show that depressed individuals, compared to healthy controls, regulate their emotions in a manner that is likely to maintain sadness. But they did not choose to decrease happiness. They chose more happy images than sad images, and what's more, they said they preferred happiness to sadness.
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Don't make happiness conditional. Due to fear, despair and anger people can't appreciate what they have. Life in itself is big thing. Training of mind for conscious observation is helpful.
Become instantly likeable tips; match tone of voice and mirror their body language. Be respectful and polite to everyone you meet. Be confident. Be honest, but do so gently. Listen. Ask questions.
Use their name. Know your audience. Recognize reciprocation.
Make them laugh. Remember to smile! Open up. [Because everyone's fighting the same battle you are, help them out a little. Be approachable (when you're not doing the approaching yourself -- which you may have to do). Smile, uncross your arms, and set down your phone.] Make eye contact. Mirror them. Show deference, make a gesture of respect. Use the power of touch.
Like people. Be positive.
Think of your unique strengths and explore opportunities for showcasing them. Most importantly, remember to be yourself. Know that others are only momentarily impressed by the superficial. Recognize that you'll feel vulnerable. Control your insecurities. Know that you can control your thoughts. Be unconcerned with others' preconceived ideas. Be warm and kind.
Be extroverted ... to a point. Don't be a suck up. People like likable people, not people who are dying to be liked.
Ask for favors. Keep your promises. Make sure you can follow through on all your commitments. Stand up for your beliefs without preaching them.
Know that it's more important to keep people happy than anything else. People are sensitive creatures. Give compliments. Make the effort. Most people aren't social butterflies.
https://www.wikihow.com/Be-Likable
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